Oh man.I am at my wits end. I have no idea how to deal with my "willful" son.
Here's an example of today's escapade.
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Eli woke from his nap in an obvious sour mood.
I saw this and tried to intercede with hugs and cuddles. Not exactly what he wanted. After a while I asked him to help clean up the toys he left in the living room.
{Hes 3 he can clean up after himself right?}
Tantrum #1... He whined and cried and stomped and told me that I should just do it. Not cute.
So he finally cleaned up the toys
{After threatening to throw them away}
As I continued to clean the house he just followed me whining and being obnoxious
So I gave him a snack and told him to play in his room while I cleaned.
Well I didn't get much cleaning done because he screamed and yelled and came out of his room every 30 seconds saying, "I dont want to!! This is bad!! I cant deal with this"
{the last one was funny the 1st time not so much the 20th}
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At the 1/2 hour mark I thought to myself...
Am I taking this too far? I just want him to behave, to do as I say.
Its just exhausting. I dont want my son to be defiant and rude.
So he stayed in there until he could sit quietly and play with his toys.
That took an HOUR AND A HALF.
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Am I wrong? How do I deal with my stubborn but sweet boy?